While the home health aid was here today with Pita, the social worker came and we went through the Hospice transition paperwork and it is now complete. He is now on Hospice as of today. I have to admit I am still sitting here asking myself if I made the right decision and I know I did out of love. I just want him to be happy and comfortable. He actually admitted to me tonight when I brought him his dinner that he actually feels a little better. I hope he is happier now that he will be getting even more home care. We're gonna be ok!
I hope he eats his dinner. He wanted half a bagel with cream cheese and jelly. Maybe he will eat it because it's sweet.
G'nite Pita, sleep well and I will see ya in the morning!
Welcome….This blog is dedicated to my Late Husband Chuck a.k.a. Pita who lost his battle with Renal Cancer on November 9th 2011 at 8:20am. It is also dedicated to cancer patients and caretakers who are fighting. Our loved ones aren't the only ones that suffer with this disease. Who are you fighting for?
I think when he is feeling more comfortable, he will be able to eat more and chat more. Maybe not novels worth, but some nice conversations.
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He needs your sense of humor to be the same... he has lived with it all these years... and if it changes, it may weigh on his mind.
(Now it is my turn to try to make sense of all in store for us.)
Thanks Bren, I do try to continue my sense of humor with him so he doesn't detect any "BAD" changes in our life. I also try and keep things as normal as possible for the boys also so as to not rock their boat! The more things remain the same the more ok we will be.
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