Morning! I just got the boys on the bus and took Pita his breakfast and he was awake but not ready to get out of bed. I knelt down by his bed and started rubbing his back and he shoo'd me away saying he just wanted to sleep! So I left a little disappointed but I just said "Yeah, ok, I know." and left! I can't even show him affection without him getting angry at me sometimes. I hate cancer so much!!
I immediately came down and tossed his uneaten dinner from last night...put his untaken meds away from last night and put a call in to his dr for him to call ME and talk to ME! Something has to be done! I may have to make the hardest decision I DON'T want to make. Stop all active chemo treatments and put him on hospice care and see if he will start eating again! Let's see what the dr says!
Welcome….This blog is dedicated to my Late Husband Chuck a.k.a. Pita who lost his battle with Renal Cancer on November 9th 2011 at 8:20am. It is also dedicated to cancer patients and caretakers who are fighting. Our loved ones aren't the only ones that suffer with this disease. Who are you fighting for?
HAng in there, but you need to know all the options. Maybe a feeding tube would help give him some nutrients so he would have some energy?
ReplyDeleteIt might help him feel better about moving around the house and joining you for a little bit each day, downstairs.
Just a thought.