tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186998552906566200.post7858467713755097807..comments2011-11-29T08:01:16.221-08:00Comments on PITA Cancer Care: Not sure if this makes sense but....CakeChichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14348031615223135867noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186998552906566200.post-34567292028252861732011-10-26T18:21:18.329-07:002011-10-26T18:21:18.329-07:00I sent you a message on CM...
if you didn't re...I sent you a message on CM...<br />if you didn't read it ..I understand...<br /><br />My Dad went through the same Cancers that your hubby is going through...Mom would call me and tell me the same things you are posting....<br /><br />Yes..It sucked when I lost my Dad...I still struggle everyday with knowing I can't talk to him,I can't call him to ask questions, but...I saw him at the very end of his life...as I walked away from him (saying my goodbyes and watching him hug his only grandkids goodbye) I prayed to God to make his pain go away. 2 days later he passed away holding my Mom's(his wife of 40 years) hand. When Mom called me to tell me ...I didn't cry. I knew he was in a better place and pain free. Like I said I still struggle without him at times..but I know he is being well taken care of ....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186998552906566200.post-91335427727139890552011-10-25T21:49:28.605-07:002011-10-25T21:49:28.605-07:00I would never bash you. I totally get where you ar...I would never bash you. I totally get where you are coming from. I've seen it myself with a couple loved ones. It's the saddest thing to know that it's out of your control and you only want what's best for them. Not wanting someone to suffer is the most selfless act anyone could want for someone. You have to know that for them, it's got to be pure hell not being able to be the person they once were. And it frustrates them that others have to see them that way. Your love for him and the boys is unmeasurable. I hope that God hears your pray. Our Father works in ways that we don't understand, he must not be ready to give Chuck his wings yet, maybe he still has something else he wants you and the boys to do for Chuck, only He knows. I am here for you, I will keep you, CJ, Michael and Chuck in my prayers. I love you sister.Terrie Callawaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186998552906566200.post-21620079617222249162011-10-25T20:29:08.503-07:002011-10-25T20:29:08.503-07:00I completely understand where you are coming from....I completely understand where you are coming from. It is terribly hard to see someone you love so deeply suffering when you know there is nothing you can do to ease it. IMO wanting them to pass on is the ultimate testament of your love for them, you are willing to take on the heartache and pain of losing them so that they may find peace.<br />Your strength and compassion is amazing and I am honored to call myself your friend!<br />Love you much my sister,<br />LisaLady Saphirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152909299011558735noreply@blogger.com